One of those days

Ugh. 

I just wrote a whole post with references to things I had to look up to be correct on, and I didn't make sure my cursor was still in the message box when I went back to the post page, so when I backspaced to fix a mistake, it took me off the page. Then it offered me a draft, so I happily clicked it, but it was the draft of the last post I made not this one. An hour's worth of work, gone.

So instead of rewriting and asking a question about the story I'm working on, I'll leave you with something I came across the other day. An advice column had how to handle a relationship (the sex part) if both parties are bottoms (the answer was pretend they are making you dominate because sex is mostly in your head) and I followed the links back to another column where both parties were tops and came across this:

"I’m not super into strict top/bottom, dominant/submissive roles, but I definitely understand the natural predisposition to one end of the spectrum over the other. Going from bottom to top seems to be an easier transition, since most bottoms are actually tops in disguise (bottoms are very sneaky and also very in charge, they just don’t brag about it). But going from top to bottom seems a bit trickier, because the only thing tops are used to submitting to, relatively speaking, is bottoms, not other tops."

So I'll leave this prompt:

...the only thing tops are used to submitting to, relatively speaking, is bottoms...